Trying to attract a Sagittarius can be a challenge for many other signs. Sagittarians (especially Sagittarius men) often come across as aloof and indifferent. They can be almost painfully detached emotionally and are often going off to do their own thing rather than bending to obligation. Those who take these Sagittarius traits personally don't really understand what it means to be a Sagittarius in love.
One of the most important characteristics of Sagittarius is their need for independence. More than any other sign (though Aries comes close), these individuals require a lot of time set aside to go on adventures and explore new thoughts, ideas, people, and places. Boredom does not get along well with the Sagittarius personality, and even a Sagittarius in love cannot will him or her self to stay in the same place for long once things become routine.
To attract a Sagittarius, one has to first understand that despite their philosophical nature and generosity, members of this sign can only give so much. They are happy to take you along on their adventures if you can keep up, but the emotionally detached Sagittarius is also just fine taking off on their own.
Lucky, optimistic, and good with change, some signs may be dumbstruck by how a Sagittarius lover can seemingly shut down when it comes to emtional issues. One must understand that those born under this sign (again, especially Sagittarius men) truly do not want to hurt anyone's feelings, but they prefer to be honest, even blunt at times. They have an equally hard time understanding highly emotional individuals as those people have a hard time understanding them.
In order to attract a Sagittarius and/or survive a long-term Sagittarius relationship, potential partners must accept members of this sign for who they are. While they accept changes in routine well, they are not likely to change just because they don't fit with someone else. This is a sign of independent thinkers, armchair philosophers, and impatient adventurers. Those who want someone happy to stay home all of the time should look for anything but a Sagittarius relationship.
The
benefit of a Sagittarius relationship are many, however, as long as one
can accept these individuals for who they are. Sagittarius men and
women alike rarely get jealous or possessive. They tend to be
optimistic and future-focused while being perfectly able to live in the
moment if the moment interests them enough. They can easily become
bored and restless, and when this happens it is best to let them get
some adventure in. They don't mind going it alone if that's what you
want.
Highly independent individuals should consider a Sagittarius relationship, though more possessive or emotional signs will probably find their long-term happiness elsewhere.
Because this can be a difficult sign to understand, it is best to go one step further and uncover the subconscious elements of each individual Sagittarian. To truly know how to attract a Sagittarius, find the person's birth date on this chart and their corresponding Primal Zodiac sign. The Primal Zodiac takes standard western astrology into account while seamlessly incorporating the Chinese zodiac as well, adding 1200% more depth to each analysis. Best of all, you can access these for free on this site!
